Helpful Hints for Parents

Procedures are often stressful and frightening experiences for children and families. Planning ways to cope with procedures can help your child have a better experience.

• Be honest -- don't say a procedure won't hurt if it will.
• Tell the staff what helps your child stay relaxed.
• Focus on and talk about positive things.
• Praise your child during and after the procedure for doing all the things that are asked of him or her. For example, "you did a good job holding your arm still."
• Talk in a calm, quiet voice.
• Place yourself where your child can see or touch you while you hold a hand or rub the forehead or cheek.
• Ask questions to prepare yourself for the procedure.

Being in the hospital can be upsetting for children and may interfere with normal childhood activities. Children may face:

• Anxiety and pain related to their diagnosis, procedures or treatment
• Change in normal routines such as sleeping, meals, school and play
• Separation from family, friends and the comfort of home
• Loss of independence

As a parent, you know your child better than anyone and can help make him or her more comfortable. Please be sure to:

• Tell us about your child's favorite activities, school, family, friends, pets, reactions to being sick, etc.
• Share any concerns you may have about your child's behavior while in the hospital
• Join your child during play activities when possible

For more age-specific suggestions, see the list in the right column.

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